You can also experiment holding the vibrator on your clitoris while you are having intercourse to see if it feels good. You can either show your partner how you like it placed on you or give it to them to hold and put your hands over theirs guiding it how you like until they get the hang of it and you can let go. If you have been using your vibrator and feel comfortable with it, pull it out and use it together. Then, go to the bedroom, lock the door, light a candle, put on some music, and go in for the kiss. Have dinner or a glass of wine together first to foster connection. Tell them you want to clear the calendar for the night and to meet you in the bedroom. Drop a hint to your partner in the form of a sexy text or phone call.
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